You have found your soul mate, but you are not completely sure of the depth of feelings between you? Or vice versa, do you want to make sure of the sincerity of your love for your partner, with whom you have been together for a long time?
In any case, applying a few of the methods below, you can clearly answer yourself the question "Is it love?". If you are ready to learn the truth - let's start the test and after a few minutes you will know the sincerity of feelings towards your partner. You can simulate any situation with the participation of your couple and get a quick answer to the most important question.
1. Identify the cause
The first method is the fastest. It allows you to stop or continue testing the truth of the feelings for the second half, depending on the results obtained. The method consists in the following. Name (quickly, without thinking) several reasons why you love your partner.
If you are thinking and can not single out any reason for love - congratulations, everything is for real! Love is just there, it is in our heart.
2. The desire to just be close
Love is admiration for no reason, deep respect, joy and pleasure from spending time together with a person. If you are happy for his presence in life, you are comfortable just to be around - then the feelings are sincere.
3. The method of checking anger
When you are angry with a man, what do you experience in parallel with anger? If, in spite of anger, you still want to be with this person and quickly reconcile with him and cannot take long to be offended by your partner, this is love. But if the thought "Probably, this is not my man" comes to mind - most likely it is.
4. Emotions or feelings?
It is important to determine the nature of attraction to the person. Emotions are short-term, and feelings are always present. So, the passion passes quickly, and the intimacy remains, no matter what. It is interesting that even after parting you can feel love for a person.
5. Role change
The man-getter and the woman-keeper of the hearth can sometimes change roles due to certain circumstances beyond their control. One of them is partner disease. Would you be able to take on the role of "breadwinner" while caring for a man, helping him to return to the normal course of life? Many are not ready for this. For this reason, 35% of couples between the ages of 18 and 50 break up when they have serious financial difficulties.
6. How far are you ready to go?
Immerse yourself in any unusual situation, the participants of which will be you and your beloved. This can be both a favorable situation (a partner gains $ 1,000,000 in the lottery) or a sad one (a partner’s disability). What are you ready to go in order to be with your companion? A loving person will sincerely rejoice in the happy moments of the life of the second half, and vice versa, will support him in a difficult situation, no matter what.
7. Distance as an obstacle
If life forces you to disperse to different cities and at the same time there is a feeling that this is the end of the union - the way it is. Convenience or inconvenience is not a criterion of true love. People created for each other - can wait. Love does not depend on the status of the relationship, the duration of cohabitation and other external factors.
8. Uninhabited island
The deepest way to test feelings is the most interesting. Imagine that you unexpectedly came to an uninhabited island. Moreover, you don’t have anything with you - neither matches, nor food, nor any technology and benefits of civilization. You can only rely on each other.
Answer a few questions:
- Could you entrust your life (in the literal sense of the word) to a man? The question is not how good the bearer is, but how much you trust him (this is an important component of love).
- Would it be elementary for you to talk about? Often, without additional "bonuses" in the form of society, entertainment and other things, two people are not interested together.
- How long could you spend time alone and not get bored with each other? Of course, any couple sometimes wants to spend time separately. But together they are interested to be long enough.
If, using 8 ways to test feelings, you are satisfied - it remains to congratulate you and enjoy a harmonious and strong union.
The test results could also bring unexpected discoveries. In this case, do not worry - perhaps this is a chance to change life for the better. But if you are happy with a man, then you do not need any tests and checks. Indeed, in any rule there is an exception confirming this rule.
